Well, we all moms one time or the other must have discussed about the endless responsibilities that motherhood is known to bring along with that cute and adorable baby of ours. But we are so intimidated by the set of responsibilities that we often overlook the bliss, the amount of positivity it brings along.....
I sometimes envied my hubby, as he spends hours in office and yet in the evening when he is back home my son used to get so excited just by a glimpse of him and would utterly ignore me......YES, you all read it right!!! All of a sudden, a lad who was swinging in my arms, playing with me the whole day would suddenly become his "Papa's Boy"!!
Despite all my hardships, all my efforts of handling his cranky mood, his sudden demand of having his favorite snack in odd hours (I shouldn't forget to mention from the last two days he is behind me to make his favourite Samosas) to playing with him in the afternoon specifically when it's my time to take a nap after a busy and tiring day, and the list goes on. Indeed he is a loving child and loves me a lot but this sudden transition of him being solely mine to being his dad's boy when he is home is something that bothered me. BUT........thanks to this Lockdown, when there are no schools ON physically but virtual classes have been taking place. The last couple of months have been a roller coaster ride with no house help and endless chores at home, but it gave me time as a Mother to work on my bond with my kiddo. He is four and a half years old very curious little guy. We have been studying, coloring, painting together amidst all this I have found that my new achievement in this journey of Motherhood is that I have become his "Khaas Mumma".......lol!!!🤣
And since the day he has realized that I am his "Khaas Mumma", I have constantly been showered with random kisses and hugs. He is playing, jumping, hopping around or anything; suddenly he runs to me and showers me with kisses and hugs and this thing has been on for almost more than a month now. I have my fair share of countless hugs and kisses, that takes away all the stress, anxiety or any negative thing that has been lingering on me. His dad is clueless about all this and enjoys that short span of attention (because I am the one who gets most of them 😉😉)
So, to all the lovely moms out there, enjoy that extra dose of love, care and attention, count your blessings that with some responsibilities you are guaranteed to receive countless, consistent, unconditional and the purest form of love for the rest of your life. Moms are precious, we will receive exactly the love we have for our Moms. Do not overlook that innocence, enjoy every bit of it as the time is passing soon. One who is a kid now would transform into a young girl or lad in a blink of an eye. So cherish every passing second!!
Love and peace from a "Not-so-perfect" Mommy to all the lovely mommies ❤️❤️❤️
I sometimes envied my hubby, as he spends hours in office and yet in the evening when he is back home my son used to get so excited just by a glimpse of him and would utterly ignore me......YES, you all read it right!!! All of a sudden, a lad who was swinging in my arms, playing with me the whole day would suddenly become his "Papa's Boy"!!
Despite all my hardships, all my efforts of handling his cranky mood, his sudden demand of having his favorite snack in odd hours (I shouldn't forget to mention from the last two days he is behind me to make his favourite Samosas) to playing with him in the afternoon specifically when it's my time to take a nap after a busy and tiring day, and the list goes on. Indeed he is a loving child and loves me a lot but this sudden transition of him being solely mine to being his dad's boy when he is home is something that bothered me. BUT........thanks to this Lockdown, when there are no schools ON physically but virtual classes have been taking place. The last couple of months have been a roller coaster ride with no house help and endless chores at home, but it gave me time as a Mother to work on my bond with my kiddo. He is four and a half years old very curious little guy. We have been studying, coloring, painting together amidst all this I have found that my new achievement in this journey of Motherhood is that I have become his "Khaas Mumma".......lol!!!🤣
And since the day he has realized that I am his "Khaas Mumma", I have constantly been showered with random kisses and hugs. He is playing, jumping, hopping around or anything; suddenly he runs to me and showers me with kisses and hugs and this thing has been on for almost more than a month now. I have my fair share of countless hugs and kisses, that takes away all the stress, anxiety or any negative thing that has been lingering on me. His dad is clueless about all this and enjoys that short span of attention (because I am the one who gets most of them 😉😉)
So, to all the lovely moms out there, enjoy that extra dose of love, care and attention, count your blessings that with some responsibilities you are guaranteed to receive countless, consistent, unconditional and the purest form of love for the rest of your life. Moms are precious, we will receive exactly the love we have for our Moms. Do not overlook that innocence, enjoy every bit of it as the time is passing soon. One who is a kid now would transform into a young girl or lad in a blink of an eye. So cherish every passing second!!
Love and peace from a "Not-so-perfect" Mommy to all the lovely mommies ❤️❤️❤️
The constant smile while reading this is what anyone would want for relaxing 💓 Much love to the mommy and the kiddo😘💃!! Keep writing Khas Mumma😉!!
ReplyDeleteKudos Niharika..... Very Well Written!
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Being a mum is a blessing. Thank you so much for sharing x
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